Warm the oil in a heavy bottomed pan (please avoid non stick) - a big pot (10 inch base), makes for quicker cooking!
Add the cloves and cardamom, fry for a minute
Then add the sivaiyan, fry for 2 minutes until darker in color.
Add milk, bring to a boil (watch carefully) and then add the salt, nuts and saffron if using.
Simmer for 10-15 minutes until thickened and the vermicelli has softened.
Add most of your can of condensed milk, and qalaqand (if using) and stir well before tasting. Sheer Khurma becomes sweeter tasting as it cools, but if you feel it is under sweet then add more condensed milk.
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Tip: If you find that your Sheer Khurma has thickened too much then adjusting it with evaporated milk is a quick creamy fix otherwise regular milk works too.I stopped using qalaqand in this recipe many years ago, but many of you love this addition and so I have left it on the recipe cardThe more pistachios you use the greener your Sevaiyan will look, for a pure white cook with almonds and garnish with Pistachios!